Yes, you have it right, it’s been 42 years and I am still single, never been married, and have no children. It’s not to say that I haven’t had my opportunities. I have met some wonderful and amazing women over the years. But, time, circumstances, dynamics, and choices have all prevented the norm from happening. And while most men who have remained single have spent that time furthering their careers, I on the other hand have spent much of my days experiencing life. I can’t say that it doesn’t come with a cost, as it most certainly does.
The fact of the matter is, that while there are many beautiful women out there, there are a select few that you connect with, they make you feel complete in one way or another. But the truth is this doesn’t always go both ways, for many reasons: age, interests, you work together, education, psychology, body type, this list goes on and on. It seems these are the ones I seem to find myself drawn to. I sometimes wish that God, whoever or whatever that omnipotent power is, would give us some way to identify and cause ones paths to cross. And although I am quite content at being single, there is that one person I run across that makes me wish I wasn’t. ‘Sometimes’ the feelings are not necessarily mutual.
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